Sunday Morning Coffee — July 30, 2023/August 5, 2018 — A Nice Guy Who Didn’t Want Anyone To Know It

(Note: When your favorite team has won more championships than any other in any sport there aren’t many dark moments.  With 27 World Championships, New York Yankees fans have had more than their share of champagne.  However, long time pinstripe backers still lament October 13, 1960 when the Pirates Bill Mazeroski walked off their team in the seventh game of the World Series; or November 4, 2001, only three outs away from another title and with a one run lead, future Hall of Fame closer Mariano Rivera gave up two runs and the Arizona Diamondbacks stunned the visitors from the Bronx.  Maybe the most bitter was the 2004 ALCS when the Yankees coughed up a three games to none series lead to the despicable Boston Red Sox. Then there is this 2023 season, so many expectations turned dark in just about every way.  However, Yankees fans from not only the 70s but from all eras will no doubt say the worst day in team history was August 2, 1979 when their captain, their leader and their heart, 32-year-old Thurman Munson was killed in an airplane crash near his home in Canton, Ohio.  With the 44th anniversary of Munson’s death upcoming on Wednesday, here’s remembering a Sunday Morning Coffee from August 5, 2018.) :


Thurman Munson died thirty-nine years ago Thursday.  It was August 2, 1979.

Some from the younger set will ask ‘who is Thurman Munson?’  Others might recall the name.  But if you are a baseball aficionado Boomer, you either loved him or loathed him.  Few were indifferent.

Thurman Munson was the catcher for the New York Yankees. He played baseball with a middle linebacker intensity.  He was the heart of the 1977 and 1978 World Champions.  He was the Yankees captain, the first since Lou Gehrig in 1939.  Joe DiMaggio, Yogi Berra and Mickey Mantle were never Yankee captains.  Thurman Munson was.  He had that all important hat trick of talent, leadership and respect.   Munson, who on the surface was a mustachioed, snarly curmudgeon, was loved by everyone in his clubhouse except for maybe Reggie Jackson.  That ironically made Thurman even more lovable, probably to non-Yankees fans, too.

He played eleven seasons in pinstripes, was a seven time All-Star, the American League Rookie of the Year in 1970, and the AL Most Valuable Player in 1976. He did everything on a ball field except getting inducted into the Hall of Fame, a grave injustice.  His number #15 will never be worn by a Yankee again. He hated the Red Sox with all the fire and passion he could muster and he played like it. Yankees fans revered him.

To me, Thurman Munson was more than a legend when he died at the age of thirty-two. He died loving what he was doing even more than baseball: piloting his own airplane.  It was that Cessna Citation that allowed him to fly home to Canton, Ohio numerous times during the long baseball season to see his wife Diana and their kids.   The crash happened during an off day for the Yankees, while Munson was doing a practice run of touch and go landings at the Akron-Canton Airport.  His two passengers walked off the aircraft but Munson, with a broken neck, died of asphyxiation from the flames.

Thurman was the first baseball player I ever personally knew. More importantly, he was the first baseball player that ever knew me.   If you were a kid growing up during the fifties, sixties or seventies, you know what a big deal that was. We idolized ballplayers as kids. We wanted to be them.  There was no electronic daily medium that personalized these guys back then except maybe a rare newspaper feature story.  We got to see them play on black and white televisions, had their baseball trading cards and mired ourselves in daily newspaper box scores. Weekly, we waited for the Sporting News or Baseball Digest to learn as much about their stats as our young teenage minds could comprehend.  If we were lucky enough to go to a ballgame we saw them from a distance and maybe, just maybe, during batting practice we could get close enough to the field to yell something in their direction and get a nod of approval.  Oh my — ecstasy, if that ever happened.

We eventually grew up not being professional baseball players. Idolatry gave way to reality. We lived our lives the way our lives were meant to be lived. Ultimately, a diamond meant a commitment and a not a place to spend nine innings.

I met Thurman for the first time in 1976 when the Yankees held their spring training in Fort Lauderdale, FL.  I was a twenty-four year old director of public relations at nearby Hollywood Greyhound Track.  With mainly daytime exhibition games in those days, Thurman loved to bet the dogs in the evenings.  The Yankees PR department would phone me ahead of time to tell me he and Diana would be coming to the track for dinner and wanted me to have a table reserved for them in our popular clubhouse restaurant.  The Munsons would come to the track by themselves, but Thurman always wanted a table for four so he could spread out the racing program and tip sheets while they would eat and wager.  After a while Munson would phone me directly to let me know he was coming to the track; I would spend part of the evening visiting with them.  Well, more with Diana than Thurman, who had his head mired in the racing form like a history major cramming for a math final the next morning.  One night, somehow, I was able to distract him enough to come down with me to the winner’s circle for a picture with the race winner. It remains one of my baseball treasures. He could play baseball in front of 50,000 fans, but was sheepishly uncomfortable being the center of attention.

Gruff on the outside, Munson was really a kind, gentle man unless you were Boston’s Carlton Fisk or a reporter. Easily recognizable, he was a bit shy, but at the racetrack he wouldn’t turn his back on any fan acknowledgment, instead giving a nod or saying hello.  Former Yankees president Gabe Paul once said, “Thurman Munson is a nice guy who doesn’t want anyone to know it”.

Our friendship would rekindle every spring when the Yankees were in training camp. He would freely call in the pre-cell phone era and the Hollywood switchboard operator was told to always find me.  I wasn’t going to miss a Thurman Munson phone call, especially and unbeknownst to me at the time, he was transitioning me from a lifelong Pittsburgh Pirates fan and Yankees hater to a Yankees lover. I’m still not sure how that could have happened.

The summer of 1978 was my greatest Thurman Munson memory.  It was the weekend after Labor Day.  Six weeks before the Yankees trailed the Red Sox by fourteen games for first place in the standings. Earlier in the season owner George Steinbrenner fired Billy Martin for the first of five times and brought in Bob Lemon to steady the ship. It was like replacing Donald Trump with Mr. Rogers. When the Yankees hit Fenway Park in September they were on fire and only trailed Boston by four games.

That weekend became known in Yankees annals as the ‘Boston Massacre’ with the good guys sweeping the four game series by a combined scored of 42-9, leaving the Back Bay in a tie for first place.

I was in Boston and went to the Saturday afternoon game with Greg Farley, the racing writer for the Boston Herald-American, who to this day is still a close friend.  Things were going so well for the Yankees that long-forgotten Jim Beattie, with a record of 3-7, pitched into the ninth that day with the Yankees winning a 13-2 laugher to close the gap to one game.

That same night Greg and I went to the greyhound races and dinner at nearby Wonderland Park. When we walked into the clubhouse restaurant and the host was leading us to our table we heard a loud shout: “Roy, what are you doing here?”  It was Munson at a table with Mickey Rivers, Lou Piniella, Graig Nettles and Ron Guidry, who won twenty-five games and the American League Cy Young award that season.  There may have been one or two others in the group but I was so startled I didn’t take attendance.

Thurman asked me to sit down and join them.  I felt like Dan Quayle at dinner with Churchill, FDR and General MacArthur.  I’m certain the other Yankees had no idea who or why this guy with a bad Afro who looked like a cross between Mr. Kotter and the white man’s Oscar Gamble was sitting with them. I laughed when I was supposed to; I rooted for their bets to win and sat in awe the rest of the time.  I had no idea what happened to Greg Farley that night but hoped he enjoyed dinner as much as I did.  Ironically, a dozen years later I would become GM of Wonderland Park.

That massacre weekend was a prelude to what was to come for the Yankees.  Finishing in a regular season tie with the Red Sox it paved the way for Bucky Dent’s career defining hit in a one game winner-take-all playoff game; then the Yanks beat KC in the ALCS and the Dodgers in six in the World Series.  Dent will always be remembered for the seventh inning home run over the Green Monster that put the Yankees in the lead for good, but not many remember he was also the MVP of the World Series too.

It wasn’t until the Yankees reported to spring training the following February in Fort Lauderdale that I found out the rest of the story from that Saturday night at the track.  I knew Munson hit a trifecta for about $1300. That was a pretty big score back in the day.  What I didn’t know until Thurman told me months later was the cash was stolen out of his Fenway Park locker the next day, allegedly by a teammate.  It was one of those situations where everyone suspected who did it but nobody approached the guy.

Dent, who I got to know during my years at Yankees fantasy camp, graciously wrote the foreword to my book Big League Dream last year (2017). He was my camp coach in 2014.  We were gabbing between innings of a game and I recounted that 1978 night at Wonderland, Munson’s trifecta win and the stolen cash.  Without missing a beat Bucky gave me the name of the guy everyone suspected of being the perp.  It was the same name I heard thirty-five years earlier.

The next season, 1979, Martin had been ‘unfired’ by Steinbrenner and was back in the manager’s office.  Munson, now into his early thirties, was beginnng to focus on post-career business opportunities and was interested in me helping him put together an investment group to purchase a greyhound track in New Hampshire that was on the market. He learned the hard way that the only way to make money in the racing game was to own the track. Ultimately, he wanted me to manage it for him.  He promised he’d be more patient than Mr. Steinbrenner.

Then August 2, 1979 happened. I was working in Connecticut that summer. It was a month before ESPN went on air for the first time and a couple of decades before what became social media, but the news of the airplane accident still traveled fast over network airwaves and radio. “I had just finished dinner at the Twin Towers and when I went to get my car, the valet told me what happened,” Dent remembered and added, “My knees buckled. I got into my car and cried. Thurman was a great guy, a great leader and a great family man.”

Four days later, courtesy of colleague Aaron Silver, he and I flew privately to Thurman’s funeral in Canton. We landed at the same airfield as Munson’s accident. We left graveside and flew to the Bronx to watch the Yankees and Orioles play in a game the Yankees, still shellshocked and just returning from Canton, didn’t want to play. There 36,000 were on hand at Yankee Stadium still weeping as a tribute to our fallen leader. Bobby Murcer, Munson’s best friend, gave us chills walking-off the O’s 5-4 in the bottom of the ninth.

No doubt, the Captain left way too early but he was chasing his passion of flight and family.  He died as he lived—a nice guy who didn’t want anyone to know it.


  • Fred says:


    I still remember that day. I was working at Monmouth Park when the news broke. Being on the Jersey shore we were all Yankee fans. I still can feel the silence we all sat in

  • Linda says:

    Thoroughly enjoyed reading as I remember to well the day he died. Truly you captured the essence of his baseball career!

  • Randy Becker says:

    Fantastic story Roy.

  • Fred Porsche says:

    Your story brought back many memories of baseball in the 1970’s. The individuals you have interacted with during your life is just amazing. Thank you for sharing.

  • Nick Paciello says:

    Growing up a Mets fan, I always hated the Yankees, but I remember feeling sad that day. A Similar to when Clemente crashed.

  • Lewis Matusow says:

    Man, can this kid write or what? You’re simply the best.

  • Jim Nettles says:

    Your writing never ceases to amaze me. If the NFL can open the doors in Canton for Gayle Sayers after an injury shortened seven year career (well deserved), MLB can certainly do the same for Thurman Munson. I had no idea he wasn’t in the Hall.

  • Beth Turbitt says:

    Quite a gem, Roy! Thanks for sharing all the personal tidbits. I still remember hearing the news, my brother, sister and I were in our family’s Chevy Citation, with my Mother driving. We were all so saddened. Thankfully, Bobby Murcer’s home run brought the joie de vivre back!

  • Rich Fanning says:

    Thurman Munson as a rookie played for our Binghamton Triplets! Saw many games then called up to Syracuse and the next year Rookie of the Year! MVP in 1976 , the “Bobby Murcer “ game still makes me tear up. Blessings to you all

  • Ken Rich says:

    Roy, your writing stays with me so vividly that I actually remember your blog from August 5, 2018, which because of my age seems like last week. I remember your words regarding Thurman Munson because I was a big fan. He was the heart and soul of the Yankees and is sorely missed, even to this day. Stay well!

  • Steven Hoffman says:

    Great story. I couldn’t stop crying for days after. He still is my all time favorite Yankee.Steve

  • George Howard says:

    I’ll never forget that day. No idea that you knew him. Best hitter I ever saw with RISP. His average jumped about 40 points.

  • As always, great stuff!

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